Have you ever noticed how judgmental feminists are? Yeah, what you're doing is cool and yes, you do not have to conform to the social norms that have been put there by men. But does that mean that we all need to agree? Does it mean that we all need to make the same choices and have the same preferences as you? Nah. We don't. Isn't that what feminism is supposed to be about? Making the right choices for yourself? Otherwise, it's a bit hypocritical...

Believing that feminism is about fighting for your rights and heart's desires is a good way to go. But I think that what you want could be anything and nothing at all. You might want to have a career and never get married or maybe you want to have 10 kids and raise them yourself. That doesn't mean that you don't appreciate the importance of feminine power and so on. Women should not be defined by the word feminism, but by their wants and needs. 

The social synonym for a feminist is man-hater. That doesn't have to be that way. Not all feminists detest the opposite gender or sex for that matter. It's the decision to follow their path regardless of judgement that makes them strong. Believing that a lady can achieve anything she sets her mind to because that's what she wanted is what makes her a feminist. And if you ask me, the word feminist is redundant these days. In today's globalized society, the word describing females living with this attitude should just be "women".